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What you need to know about French dinner etiquette

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French dinner etiquette

Sharing a meal is one of the most authentic ways to experience French culture.

Whether you’re dining with a host family or friends, understanding French dinner etiquette will help you feel confident, welcomed, and connected.

Why dinner matters in French culture?

In France, dinner is more than just a time to eat, it’s a daily ritual. Most families eat together around 7:30 to 8:30 p.m., and sitting down at the table is seen as an important moment to pause, reflect on the day, and engage in conversation.

This ritual extends beyond the family. Inviting someone over for dinner is a meaningful gesture in France. It reflects trust and warmth and is often how friendships are deepened. Dinners with friends are cherished events and a core French value known as convivialité (the joy of being together).

French dinner etiquette

Arriving on time is important

Arriving on time is important, but do not arrive right on time, please arrive 10-15 minutes later. Being too early may inconvenience your host, while arriving too late without notifying your host is disrespectful.

Greeting your host warmly

First impressions matter. Upon arrival, greet your host with a friendly “Bonsoir” (Good evening). In casual or familiar gatherings, you may be greeted with “la bise”, a light kiss on both cheeks.

Wait for your host to introduce you to the other guests before engaging in conversation.

Learn about French greetings: https://gogofrance.com/en/blog/french-greetings/

Mind your table manners

Understanding French dinner etiquette can seem intimidating, but in casual, friendly settings, there’s no need to worry too much. Still, knowing the basics will help you feel more comfortable:

  • Seating: Wait for the host to invite everyone to sit.
  • Napkin: Place your napkin on your lap once you’re seated.
  • Glasses: You may have multiple glasses, typically one for water and others for wine.
  • Utensils: Use utensils from the outside in as the courses progress.
  • Bread: Tear off small pieces of bread with your hands rather than biting directly into it.

If you’re interested in learning more about French dinner etiquette, especially in a formal setting, watch this video lesson on table manners, presented by a French countess.

The art of conversation

French people take great pride in the exchange of ideas, and the dinner table is one of the most natural places for meaningful conversation.

Safe topics include culture, travel, art, studies, and food. While the French often enjoy debating politics or current affairs, these subjects are best avoided at your first dinner.

This is why dinners in France often tend to last longer than in many other cultures. Even a weekday meal can stretch over several hours, especially if the conversation flows.

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